Caregiving with BJ Miller: Additional Questions

We had a lot of wonderful questions about how to care for patients, but also how patients can care for themselves. In this video BJ Miller addresses additional questions and comments that we weren't able to address during the scheduled time. Thanks for watching!

Show Notes:

0:00 Introduction

0:30 How palliative care can help caregivers dealing with multiple patients

5:03 Being vigilant as a caregiver, and how to decouple from vigilance

8:00 What does hospice do for patients and families? What doesn’t hospice do?

10:49 What types of questions do you typically hear from caregivers?

14:00 What is self care for caregivers and why is it important?

16:47 Helpful suggestions to bear witness for a patient

19:10 How can caregivers separate themselves from the “successes” or “failures” of the patient they are caring for?

22:19 What other terms can you use besides caregiver?

24:42 How can children interact with a dying parent even when the situation may be scary for them?

28:52 What cultures do caregiving well?

30:53 Witnessing as listening

31:30 What type of PTSD do caregivers experience?

33:56 Changing, or staying the same, over time and through illness and caregiving

36:16 Is the caregiver as important as the patient?

37:40 The difficulty of caring for someone who may be ungracious or difficult to be around

 

Join us in an upcoming event!

 

Get a complimentary session

Learn more about our services and see how Mettle Health can help you, or someone you’re caring for, by booking a short 20-minute complimentary consultation to discuss your situation with one of our counselors and find the best fit for future appointment types. You can join solo, or bring others in the care circle.

Fei Wu

Fei Wu is the creator and host for Feisworld Podcast. She earned her 3rd-Degree Black Belt in Tae Kwon Do, persisting when the other 8 year-olds quit the hobby. Now she teaches kids how to kick and punch, and how to be better humans.

She hosts a podcast called Feisworld which attracts 100,000 downloads and listeners from 40 different countries. In 2016, Fei left her lucrative job in advertising to build a company of her own. She now has the freedom to help small businesses and people reach their goals by telling better stories, finding more customers and creating new revenue streams.

https://www.feisworld.com
Previous
Previous

What are some of the more difficult aspects of caregiving that you’ve experienced?

Next
Next

Caregiving with BJ Miller